So I wanted to blog about how I'm happiest in a supporting role. & I also wanted to blog about the two settings in which I am most 'in my element'. But the more I thought about each topic, the more I thought it'd be easier to perhaps combine the two. So, this might get a bit convoluted, but bear with me, & I'll try to bear with me too. ;-o I'm not even entirely sure where to start. Let's try talking about each of my two favorite settings in turn, & tie the other bit in as we go.
I'd been to two or three concerts before October 2001, but they were the big kind where you don't talk to anyone & you can't really see what's going on. So my first little bitty concert totally changed the way I saw things. The stage was mere feet away, the audience was standing all crowded together & chattering away, the band was aged 19 to 23, I could see the cords & knobs & hard work, & I fell in love with the whole thing. I got to see that same band over 40 times in the next nine years, & I consider that one of my life's greatest blessings. I got to see many venues, good & bad. I saw crowds of young teenagers & crowds of middle-aged drunks. I saw what happens before & after the show. I worked the merch table, & that became one of my favorite things ever. I have a soft spot for many aspects of the music business, from guitar repair to the mixing of a freshly recorded album, but I most deeply love concerts.
When I go to a concert, I feel like my presence is a gesture of support to whomever I'm there to see. I feel a deep interest in every logistical detail, & I keep an eye on everyone working to make the show happen. I feel a sense of community, & I talk comfortably to strangers as if they are my friends (which is totally outside of my normal behavior). I feel alive, full of energy & hope. When I was seeing the band I saw most often, I was known, & people knew that they could count on me, & that is the feeling that makes me the most happy.
At this stage of my life, I'm making it to about one concert per year. I feel mostly okay with it, because this stage of my life is full of many lovely & important things to fill my time, & I love it. But I do miss being more present in the relationship I have with that enviroment.
The other setting that means the most to me has developed an even deeper connection to my heart than concerts, because of stronger personal involvement. I don't just love being at summer camp, I feel like I *belong* there. I've been told by multiple people that I "glow" when I work at a camp. I've been told by multiple entirely different people that they've rarely if ever seen anyone with a passion for camp like I have, & that I need to do something with that. (I do plan to give more of my life to camp, but, again, this stage of my life isn't really for that purpose.) I spent five summers at various camps. I've done day camp & overnight, Christian & mainstream, special needs & mainstream, kids & adults. I'm sitting here staing at this blinking cursor, wondering how to even put any of it into words. Oh the stress I've been through for camps! There has been blood, sweat, & tears. HAPPILY. You know you're in the right place when you're struggling harder than you ever have, in ways that go against your grain, with a constant underlying feeling that it is absolutely worth it & you'd do it all & more. The pain just becomes part of the expression of love. A common theme with many of my happiest camp moments, as with many of my concert moments, is having people know they could count on me. I was trusted with tasks beyond the responsibilities of my roles, because people knew I would gladly give my all to anything they asked of me. I got to do many little things to help things go smoothly, at camps & at concerts, & that is how I like to live my life. It's a big part of who I am, & how I show love. I try to see what details I can handle to help the people around me, often as in the background as possible. I find joy when someone asks me to do something for them. Sometimes it turns into a bad habit of taking on way too much at once, & I feel super duper bad when I have to let someone down. Other times it gets frustrating because sometimes people just don't see how I'm trying to love them, they have no idea that my behavior springs from caring about them. Different people see love more in different things, & it is important that all people try to grow from that to see more broadly.
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
Thursday, September 11, 2014
Re: #YesAllWomen
You may or may not know about the hashtag #YesAllWomen that had a big surge earlier this year. To explain it quickly in a rather oversimplified way, it was basically women pointing out that as a woman you experience some fear/pressure/discrimination, just for being a woman. & that shouldn't be how it is. But it is how it is. & before we can see significant change, we need to see more significant awareness.
The thing that really struck me about it was the unification. I don't know how other women feel about it, but I feel like a lot of women spend a lot of time comparing their self to other women, & other women to other women. But this was putting us all together, even though we had different experiences. The woman who got catcalled once was on the same plane as the woman who gets passed over for promotions was on the same plane as the rape victim.
That felt so good & so important to me.
Ever since I was old enough to understand the meaning of rape, my brain sorted my self firmly into the "nothing that bad has happened to you" category. & while that is still technically true, it was a damaging line of thought.
Multiple of my closest friends have been victims of rape. My heart breaks into thousands of pieces for them. I've seen them be strong & heroic, & I've held them while they had full-blown panic attacks. I have the deepest respect for them & how they've reclaimed their lives.
But it added to downplaying my own pain.
There are various definitions of 'sexual abuse' floating around out there, but most of the ones that don't involve actual rape fit what happened to me. (This is my first time admitting any such thing in anything even remotely public. I won't be giving any more details.) Only in the past couple of years have I actually realized that was true, it was abuse-- I'd minimized it so much in my efforts to not feel sorry for myself. & I'm not telling you all of this so that you'll feel sorry for me.
The point I want to make with this is that everyone's story matters.
Everyone's pain is valid.
The bad stuff that happened to you is bad, inherently, on its own.
What happened to someone else has nothing to do with what happened to you.
No one has any right to say that what you've been through wasn't bad, even if they've been through something worse.
Your pain affects how you live your life. What I went through impacted so much-- the way I dressed, how I spent my time, how I related to other people, how I thought about myself, on & on for years & years.
Please, whatever you've been through, let yourself find healing. A big wound won't heal properly if you keep telling yourself it's just a scratch. & even a scratch needs treatment.
The thing that really struck me about it was the unification. I don't know how other women feel about it, but I feel like a lot of women spend a lot of time comparing their self to other women, & other women to other women. But this was putting us all together, even though we had different experiences. The woman who got catcalled once was on the same plane as the woman who gets passed over for promotions was on the same plane as the rape victim.
That felt so good & so important to me.
Ever since I was old enough to understand the meaning of rape, my brain sorted my self firmly into the "nothing that bad has happened to you" category. & while that is still technically true, it was a damaging line of thought.
Multiple of my closest friends have been victims of rape. My heart breaks into thousands of pieces for them. I've seen them be strong & heroic, & I've held them while they had full-blown panic attacks. I have the deepest respect for them & how they've reclaimed their lives.
But it added to downplaying my own pain.
There are various definitions of 'sexual abuse' floating around out there, but most of the ones that don't involve actual rape fit what happened to me. (This is my first time admitting any such thing in anything even remotely public. I won't be giving any more details.) Only in the past couple of years have I actually realized that was true, it was abuse-- I'd minimized it so much in my efforts to not feel sorry for myself. & I'm not telling you all of this so that you'll feel sorry for me.
The point I want to make with this is that everyone's story matters.
Everyone's pain is valid.
The bad stuff that happened to you is bad, inherently, on its own.
What happened to someone else has nothing to do with what happened to you.
No one has any right to say that what you've been through wasn't bad, even if they've been through something worse.
Your pain affects how you live your life. What I went through impacted so much-- the way I dressed, how I spent my time, how I related to other people, how I thought about myself, on & on for years & years.
Please, whatever you've been through, let yourself find healing. A big wound won't heal properly if you keep telling yourself it's just a scratch. & even a scratch needs treatment.
Guest Post! INFJ Playlist, by Alex!
Hi friends! We've got something special for you today. I was going to post it yesterday but (I promise this is going somewhere) yesterday got wacky, so I'm posting it today, which works out even better coincidentally because the very first post for our collaborative series over at 1MoreCastle.com is supposed to go live today! So we're having a big ol' collab celebration. (I almost wanted to be clever & try to mash collab with celebration, but then it came out as 'collaboration... oops.) So, here's Alex, to tell us about why he picked the songs he did for his fabulous MBTI Playlist!
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Greetings blog
viewers! My name is Alex and I happen to be Valerie’s friend. She
has generously let me occupy her blog space while she is off knitting
or something. Back in July she and I both had the same idea, to
create a playlist based on our Meyer’s Brigg personality and share
it with friends via social media. Little did either of us know how
many people would end up participating. So many so that I still have
not gotten through everyone’s playlists, and I fully intend to.
Since I started my own playlist I have fully intended to write a blog
explaining why I chose the songs I did. Each one was carefully
chosen, at first. I did start to stray slightly from a strictly
personality based playlist and it became an “Alex based playlist”.
But fear not I am INFJ and my playlist does reflect that, but it also
reflects me perfectly. It is ideally listened to with headphones and
in order. I didn’t place songs randomly. My intention is to take
you through a journey in my shoes, I hope you’re size thirteen. I
want you to feel what I feel, to think what goes through my head, and
to see just what it is like to be me. This also might be a good way
to get to know me as well. In the remainder of the blog I will be
sharing why I chose the songs I chose as well as any relevant lyrics.
I sincerely hope you enjoy listening to this playlist,
and if you haven’t already, share yours!
1.“Sleeping Lessons” by The
Shins
“Just put yourself in my new
shoes,
And see that I do what I do, Because the old guards still defend”
And see that I do what I do, Because the old guards still defend”
A song I included mostly for the feels,
this is what I feel like on my highest of highs.
But the vibe I get is it’s like a justification for “what I do”.
But the vibe I get is it’s like a justification for “what I do”.
2. “Andrew” by Jonwayne
I included this one purely for the
feels.
3. “Under Pressure” by David
Bowie and Queen
“It’s the terror of knowing what
this world is about, watching some good friends scream ‘let me
out’”
The world is a hurting place and I feel
its feels.
4. “Hurt Feelings” by Flight of
the Conchords
“I got hurt feelings…
…I’m crying tears of a Rapper”
This is the feeling of being
misunderstood by everyone, and being forgotten, that I so often have.
5. “Four of Two” by They Might
Giants
“But I knew that the girl would be
coming very soon”
Being led on by a girl who has no
interest in me has happened before, and it sucks.
6. “My Evil Plan to Save the
World” by Five Iron Frenzy
“I have an evil plan to save the
world for every man,
And I think it's better than the way it's being run.
Oh the groundwork's laid,
No Don't be afraid,
I'm sure that I can fix it,
When I figure out the physics.”
And I think it's better than the way it's being run.
Oh the groundwork's laid,
No Don't be afraid,
I'm sure that I can fix it,
When I figure out the physics.”
While not evil, I do have a plan
to save the world
7. “The World’s Greatest
Criminal Mind” Music by Henry Mancini
You might say I think like a criminal
mastermind sometimes, but I have good intentions not ill ones.
8. “The Sound of Silence” By
Simon and Garfunkel
“Hear my words that I might teach
you.
Take my arms that I might reach you."
But my words like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells of silence.”
Take my arms that I might reach you."
But my words like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells of silence.”
I rarely feel like anyone takes what I
say very seriously.
9. “The Question Song” By Tom
Wilson
“I don't know, stop asking me the
question.”
People often ask me the same silly
questions over and over, and it annoys me to no end. The actor who
played Biff in Back to the Future (My favorite movie) sang this song.
10. “Goodbye Horses” by Q
Lazzarus and Garvey
“I must disagree sir…won’t you
listen to me?”
Mostly for the feels, but I do wish
people would listen to me. I know what I am talking about most of the
time.
11. “I Don’t Want to Set the
World on Fire” by The Ink Spots
“I don't want to set the world on
fire
I just want to start a flame in your heart”
I just want to start a flame in your heart”
I don’t want or need to be desired by
everyone (or every girl) just one.
12. “You Can Call Me Al” By Paul
Simon
“A man walks down the street
He says why am I soft in the middle now
Why am I soft in the middle
The rest of my life is so hard”
He says why am I soft in the middle now
Why am I soft in the middle
The rest of my life is so hard”
“You can call me Al”
I am quite soft in the middle (very
sensitive) and I like being called Al. On a more nostalgic note my
parents used to sing this song to me when I was a baby.
13. “We Belong Together” by
Randy Newman
“When we're together,
Grey skies are clear, oh.
And I'll share them, till where I'm less depressed.
And it's sincerely, from the bottom of my heart,
I just can't take it when we're apart.
We belong together,
We belong together.
Yes, we do,
You'll be mine, forever.”
“When we're together,
Grey skies are clear, oh.
And I'll share them, till where I'm less depressed.
And it's sincerely, from the bottom of my heart,
I just can't take it when we're apart.
We belong together,
We belong together.
Yes, we do,
You'll be mine, forever.”
A love song for my (future) bride and
myself
14. “Take Me Home, Country Roads”
by Olivia Newton-John (originally by John Denver)
“…the radio reminds me of my
home far away.”
I always feel like I belong somewhere
else than where I am, in another time another place. And indeed I do
have another home elsewhere.
15 “Feelings” by Morris Albert
“Feelings, nothing more than
feelings”
I speak almost exclusively in feelings.
16. “Robot Parade” by They Might
Be Giants
I am a fun loving robot who likes to
get along with people, and this song captures that perfectly.
17. “Friends” by Flight of the
Conchords
“Friends sing together…
Friends do things together…
Friends do things together…
Friends laugh together…”
I am all about being friendly and also
having good friends.
18. “Someone’s Rockin’ my
Dreamboat” by The Inkspots
“But with love as my guide,
I'll follow the tide,
I'll keep sailing 'til I find you.”
I'll follow the tide,
I'll keep sailing 'til I find you.”
I feel like I belong in the 30s/40s but
more to the point I am usually in a dream like state and looking for
just the right (fill in the blank) (friend, girlfriend, movie, book).
19. “I Will Possess Your Heart”
by Deathcab For Cutie
“You gotta spend some time with
me.
And I know that you'll find, love
I will possess your heart.”
And I know that you'll find, love
I will possess your heart.”
Spend time with me and I guarantee
you’ll like me, INFJs are said to be some of people’s favorite
people.
20. “I Want to Break Free” by
Queen
“I want to break free
I want to break free
I want to break free from your lies
You're so self satisfied I don't need you
I've got to break free
God knows, God knows I want to break free.”
I want to break free
I want to break free from your lies
You're so self satisfied I don't need you
I've got to break free
God knows, God knows I want to break free.”
I often get into situations that I feel
trapped, like jobs, or relationships but I’m not the most assertive
person.
21. “Don’t You (Forget About
Me)” By Simple Minds
“Don't You Forget About Me
Don't Don't Don't Don't
Don't You Forget About Me”
Don't Don't Don't Don't
Don't You Forget About Me”
Oftentimes I feel left out or forgotten
about entirely.
22. “You Don’t Know Me” By Ben
Folds (Ft. Regina Spektor)
“I wanna ask you -
Do you ever sit and wonder,
It's so strange
That we could be together for
So long, and never know, never care
What goes on in the other one's head?”
Do you ever sit and wonder,
It's so strange
That we could be together for
So long, and never know, never care
What goes on in the other one's head?”
I have been in many relationships
(friendships or otherwise) in which I don’t ever get to know the
other person and vice versa, it is rather strange being friends with
a stranger or even be related to one.
23. “Not Your Kind of People” by
Garbage
“We are not your kind of
people.
You seem kind of phony.
Everything's a lie.
We are not your kind of people.
Something in your makeup.
Don't see eye to eye.”
You seem kind of phony.
Everything's a lie.
We are not your kind of people.
Something in your makeup.
Don't see eye to eye.”
This whole song is a very good
representation of how I feel oftentimes. I think a lot of people are
phony and that is a huge pet peeve of mine. Don’t lie to me, I can
tell when you aren’t telling the truth.
24. “I Wanna Be Like You” sung
by Louis Prima
“I wanna be like you
I wanna walk like you
Talk like you, too”
I wanna walk like you
Talk like you, too”
Sometimes I just want to be like
everyone else and fit in.
25. “Don’t Stop” by Fleetwood
Mac
“Don't stop thinking about
tomorrow
Don't stop, it'll soon be here
It'll be better than before
Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone”
Don't stop, it'll soon be here
It'll be better than before
Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone”
I tend to be an optimist and think the
best is yet to come.
26. “Everything You Know is Wrong”
by “Weird Al” Yankovic
“Everything you know is
wrong
Black is white, up is down and short is long
And everything you thought was just so
Important doesn't matter”
Black is white, up is down and short is long
And everything you thought was just so
Important doesn't matter”
A silly song, but I often feel like I
know things others don’t and focus on stuff that matters, like
people instead of drama.
27. “Damn Good Times” by They
Might Be Giants
“I'm not much of a natural dancer
But I've got a friend who's a
natural dancer
You could call her a jumpin' bean
She's got ants in her pants and
she's gonna dance”
Mostly for the feels but I do like to
dance sometimes, and quite awkwardly
28. “On the Beautiful Blue Danube”
by Johann Strauss
How I feel when I am feeling at my
best.
29. “Please Do Not Go” by
Violent Femmes
“So please, please, please do not
go
Please, please, please do not go
Please, please, please do not go”
Please, please, please do not go
Please, please, please do not go”
I don’t want to be abandoned or
forgotten about, in romantic situations or just in normal
friendships.
30. “Somewhere Out There” by
Linda Ronstadt and James Ingram
“Somewhere out there
Beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me
And loving me tonight”
Beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me
And loving me tonight”
I know somewhere out there, there is a
girl looking for a guy like me and I am looking for her as well.
31. “They’ll Need a Crane” by
They Might Be Giants
“Don't call me at work again
No, no, the boss still hates me
I'm just tired and I don't love you
anymore”
These are the feelings I feel in the
middle of a bad relationship and the subsequent breakup.
32. “Pictures in My Head” sung
by Kermit, Gonzo, Fozzie, Swedish Chef, and Dr. Teeth and The
Electric Mayhem
“Is there more I could have said?
Now they’re only pictures in my head.”
Now they’re only pictures in my head.”
Sometimes I feel like my happiest times
are behind me.
33. “Common People” by William
Shatner
“I want to live like common
people
I want to do whatever common people do”
I want to do whatever common people do”
Sometimes I just want to fit in and be
“normal”.
34. “Ramona” by Beck
Though not really supported by the
lyrics, “Ramona” is the girl of my dreams, who may or may not
even exist.
35. “You’ve Got a Friend in Me”
by Randy Newman
“Some other folks might be a
little bit smarter than I am
Bigger and stronger too
Maybe
But none of them
Will ever love you the way I do”
Bigger and stronger too
Maybe
But none of them
Will ever love you the way I do”
My friendship is loyal and unique.
36. “Rainbow Connection” by
Kermit the Frog
“What's so amazing
That keeps us stargazing
And what do we think we might see
Some day we'll find it
The rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers, and me”
That keeps us stargazing
And what do we think we might see
Some day we'll find it
The rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers, and me”
I often want to find that one thing
that will help me connect with someone, and that often time comes in
the form of daydreaming.
37. “Beautiful Dreamer” by Bobby
Darin
“Beautiful Dreamer, why do you
stare?
Isn’t there someone you know who
would care.
Say you are unhappy because you’re
alone…
Beautiful dreamer, please dry your
eyes.
Don’t you be lonely, just realize,
That I too am lonely, lonely and
blue.
Beautiful dreamer, I’m a dreamer
like you.”
I am such a dreamer, and I often feel
like I am alone in the world, but deep down I know I am not.
38. “If You’re Into It” By
Flight of the Conchords
“If you want me to
I can hang 'round with you
If I only knew
That's what you're into
You and him, him and you
If that's what you're into
Him hangin' 'round around you
You're hangin' 'round, yeah, you're there too”
I can hang 'round with you
If I only knew
That's what you're into
You and him, him and you
If that's what you're into
Him hangin' 'round around you
You're hangin' 'round, yeah, you're there too”
I’d like to find out what someone is
into so I can get to know him or her, but not quite as suggestively
as the song…suggests.
39. “If I Didn’t Care” By The
Ink Spots
“If I didn't care more than words
can say
If I didn't care would I feel this way?
If this isn't love then why do I thrill?
And what makes my head go 'round and 'round
While my heart stands still?”
If I didn't care would I feel this way?
If this isn't love then why do I thrill?
And what makes my head go 'round and 'round
While my heart stands still?”
When I care about someone it can get
rather intense.
40. “Whistling in the Dark” By
They Might Be Giants
“A woman came up to me and said
"I'd like to poison your mind
With wrong ideas that appeal to you
Though I am not unkind…
“A woman came up to me and said
"I'd like to poison your mind
With wrong ideas that appeal to you
Though I am not unkind…
…And so I'm having a wonderful
time
But I'd rather be whistling in the dark”
But I'd rather be whistling in the dark”
People often come up to me and say
rather strange things, and I’d often just rather not say anything
to them, or better yet be by myself whistling in the dark.
41. “Skinnamarink” By Sharon,
Lois and Bram
“Skinnamarinky dinky
dink
Skinnamarinky do,
I love you!”
Skinnamarinky do,
I love you!”
I tend to love people, and also use
silly words. On a more personal note, this was a childhood favorite
song of mine.
42. “Every New Day” By Five Iron
Frenzy
“Dear Father, I need you,
Your strength my heart to mend.
I want to fly higher,
Every new day again
Your strength my heart to mend.
I want to fly higher,
Every new day again
Man versus himself.
Man versus machine.
Man versus the world.
Mankind versus me.
The struggles go on,
The wisdom I lack,
The burdens keep pilling
Up on my back.
So hard to breathe,
To take the next step.
The mountain is high,
I wait in the depths.
Yearning for grace,
And hoping for peace.”
Man versus machine.
Man versus the world.
Mankind versus me.
The struggles go on,
The wisdom I lack,
The burdens keep pilling
Up on my back.
So hard to breathe,
To take the next step.
The mountain is high,
I wait in the depths.
Yearning for grace,
And hoping for peace.”
This song perfectly encapsulates my
every day struggle to feel self worth, some days it’s easier than
other, sometimes I get overwhelmed by my burdens other times I am
soaring at the top of my game. This is my personal prayer that I pray
so often and almost every time I think of the song or listen to it I
can’t help but well up with so many tears. I love this song with my
entire heart, it’s one of the few that I can that about.
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*returns from knitting or something* Thank you Alex! <3 It's been an honor.
I'm really enjoying using this blog as an outlet for sharing what people are passionate about & why. If you have something you'd like to talk about, let me know!
I'm really enjoying using this blog as an outlet for sharing what people are passionate about & why. If you have something you'd like to talk about, let me know!
Saturday, September 06, 2014
How I HabitRPG
I started using HabitRPG sometime... last... year... I think. Might've been very early this year. It really helped me keep my brain from freaking out, because I had a lot going on plus a lot to get done in just a few months. I used it a lot to help me get my house ready to host folk in our guest room over Indy Pop Con... & there was so very much to get done before that could happen, lemme tell ya. But after Pop Con, my HabitRPG usage faded away, as I just wanted to relax & recover, plus other stuff was in flux that was affecting my schedule & my goals. But schedule stuff is becoming more stable, I'm grasping at new goals, & I have some serious stuff that needs done in a timely fashion. Oh, plus there's an IGGPPC party now! Can't miss that!
Here's a screencap from the website version of my Tasks.
Habits
I use habits as anything that needs done on a regular basis. So you can see chores & responsibilities & stuff there. They are also all things that don't have a definitive 'amount', per se-- so I can sweep one room or the entire house, I can blog a little or schedule things for a month, & then I can decide how much credit I deserve, because I can hit that plus sign multiple times for increased reward. I only have one item with a minus symbol. You can use the minus for things like cheating on your diet. (Yes, I reward/punish myself for how I stand up to social situations. That's probably not something you need on your HabitRPG, but I do well having a reminder of how socially drained I really am, & incentive to hang in there when I'm having to endure social stuff.) I like having the choice each day of whether or not to do any combination of any of these things, & how much.
Dailies
These are things I try to do every day. Even weekends. Whoa. I personally do not even ever want to see anything too productive on this particular list-- this list makes sure that I relax & take time to do things I enjoy. Some days I need to embrace the fact that it is okay to not get anything done. But I am a better person when I take time to read, & manipulate yarn. Even on days that I need to just relax, I like to have a plan in place. I relax by knowing what to expect. That is how my brain works!
To-Dos
To-Dos get done once. So this is your most standard list, easy to relate to what you've probably already done before with pen & paper. I pile this section full of anything that I don't want to forget to do, time-sensitive stuff, stuff that I will need to set aside time to complete, stuff that I just plain want to earn coins for accomplishing. ;-) This is also the list where I most take advantage of the ability to set things as easy, medium, or hard difficulty, & the list where things just sit for a while & turn red. But it doesn't punish me for that in this section. (I think. I'm pretty sure that is right & why I set it up this way.)
How It All Comes Together
I now keep the website pinned in my browser, as well as having the app on my tablet. By now, I have most of my Dailies & Habits memorized, so they're pretty established in my thought process of what to get done with my day. Then I can refer to my To-Dos, evaluate what sort of time I have available, what needs done urgently, blah blah blah... & see if I should start doing one of them (or maybe I already did & forgot to check it off!). & sometime during the day, I like to check in on how much gold I have earned & any items I have found, so I can do fun stuff like buy equipment & hatch eggs. DRAGONS YOU GUYS.
So that's pretty much it! I hope it all made some sort of sense, & gave you a glimpse at my brain I mean uh at HabitRPG. If you have any questions, let me know! I <3 questions!
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